Lesson 9

The Kingdom of God is like. pt.2

A Parable of Receiving & Rejecting the Kingdom

     We have surveyed some of the parables that relate to our redemption into the kingdom of God. There is another cluster that deals with appropriating this redemption. In this lesson we look at only one of many parables illustrating the reception and rejection of God’s reign: the parable of the wedding feast.

Matt 22: 1 ¶ And Jesus answered and spoke to them again in parables, saying, 2 "The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king, who gave a wedding feast for his son. 3 "And he sent out his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding feast, and they were unwilling to come. 4 "Again he sent out other slaves saying, 'Tell those who have been invited, "Behold, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and my fattened livestock are all butchered and everything is ready; come to the wedding feast."' 5 "But they paid no attention and went their way, one to his own farm, another to his business, 6 and the rest seized his slaves and mistreated them and killed them. 7 "But the king was enraged and sent his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and set their city on fire. 8 "Then he *said to his slaves, 'The wedding is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy. 9 'Go therefore to the main highways, and as many as you find there, invite to the wedding feast.' 10 "And those slaves went out into the streets, and gathered together all they found, both evil and good; and the wedding hall was filled with dinner guests. 11 "But when the king came in to look over the dinner guests, he saw there a man not dressed in wedding clothes, 12 and he *said to him, 'Friend, how did you come in here without wedding clothes?' And he was speechless. 13 "Then the king said to the servants, 'Bind him hand and foot, and cast him into the outer darkness; in that place there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.' 14 "For many are called, but few are chosen."

I. A Great Invitation

     In this parable we observe a royal wedding feast of the utmost importance. As we are all aware, the rich and famous are well-know for their ostentatious and flamboyant gatherings. Whether it’s the food, fireworks, or music, everything is done in excess as it’s based upon their fame and prestige. But in this story, the one in whom all have their being is giving the party. Can any earthy festivity compare? Charlemagne may have had delectable dainties and exotic dishes, but has he the entire earth and heaven as his garden to pick from? Lenin may have light up the night sky with fantastic pyrotechnic displays, but could he roll up the heavens like a scroll for his guests? Heavenly music might have filled the court of Louis IV, but did the vast expanse of heaven itself resonant with angelic song for his company? It is true that the festivals put on by such leaders were known to last for days, but what are a few days compared to a feast that lasts eternally for the redeemed?

     In addition to this being a royal wedding feast, notice that it is a free wedding feast. The king tells his slaves, “Tell those who have been invited, ‘Behold, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and my fattened livestock are all butchered and everything is ready; come to the wedding feast.’" In respect to God’s kingdom, everything has been provided. This blissful eternal state is not a pot luck in which it is expected of you to bring something to contribute to the feast as a whole. Bring a bowl of your good works, and expect the heavenly mass to cry, “there is death in the pot.” God has already made provisions: Christ has been slain and salvation has been procured. We are beckoned to enjoy the graciousness of the king who desires to fill our hearts with the bread from heaven.

     Furthermore, this royal wedding feast is given to honor the King’s Son. Each guest must bow down in reverence; each guest must confess his or her subjection to their sovereign; each guest must swear allegiance to the Son. The King declares “I have installed My King upon Zion, My holy mountain” (Psalm 2:6). The Spirit warns, “Kiss the son, lest he be angry, and ye perish in the way, For his wrath will soon be kindled. Blessed are all they that take refuge in him” (Psalm 2:12). This is the thrust of our Lord’s statement in John 5:22: "For not even the Father judges anyone, but He has given all judgment to the Son, 23 in order that all may honor the Son, even as they honor the Father. He who does not honor the Son does not honor the Father who sent Him. 24 "Truly, truly, I say to you, he who hears My word, and believes Him who sent Me, has eternal life, and does not come into judgment, but has passed out of death into life.”

II. A Great Rejection

     In the parable we read of an invitation that was personal. Slaves were sent door to door with the admonition, “Come to the wedding feast.” “Come honor the King’s Son.” However, this great invitation by the King to the people is met with a great rejection of the King by the people.

     First of all , there were those who were simply unwilling to come (vs.3). Is it not the same with God’s banqueting table? The Father offers an eternal heavenly feast to those who would honor Christ by faith and repentance, yet some are unwilling. To surrender their will to God is to dethrone themselves from the seat of autonomy. It is a great rejection when people refuse submit to God’s will in favor of their own.

     Secondly, there were those who paid no attention (vs.5). The slaves earnestly gave the proclamation, yet many were engrossed with other activities. Monotony dulled their hearing to the clarion call. Perhaps some responded, “I might be there a little later.”

     Or, “maybe next time.” What a great rejection and reflection of most people’s spiritual status. They’re too busy with this temporal life to invest anytime to things pertaining to eternal life. This is as foolish as a man who is found treading water unsuccessfully while clutching on to drift wood. A lifeline is thrown to him from a rescue boat, and yet he refuses the lifeline because he is too busy treading water and clutching on to driftwood. In the same way, people refuse God’s life line of grace because they are too busy clutching to that perilous driftwood of time. To ease the present rejection of grace, they fancy tomorrow’s acceptance. “I might come to Christ when I’m a little older.” “Maybe next time I will commit my life.” Future resolutions seem with each passing day to remain aloof in the future.

     Thirdly, there were those who violently opposed (vs. 6). The inward rejection of the King’s Son resulted in the outward rage against the servants of the King. A visit of the catacombs or the coliseum during Nero’s baneful reign marks the fulfillment of this parabolic prophecy.  A simple survey of history delineates the words spoken by Christ, “and you will be hated by all on account of My name” (Lu 21:17).

     Lastly, we read of those who entered the wrong way (vs.11&12). There was a person who made it in. He is reclining at the table and partaking in the bounty of the king. There is no doubt that he was conversing with the guests, perhaps even speaking highly about the king’s son. I’m sure that this individual was convinced that he had made it without having to wear the clothing provided by the king. In the same way, there are those who recline at Christianity. There are those who converse eloquently about the things of God with the saints of God. These individuals are convinced that they are in the fold without having to wear the righteousness provided by Christ. They are content to remain in their own garments of self-righteousness.

III. A Great Punishment

     Hence, we see a four-fold repudiation of God’s kingdom in this parable. Yet the story doesn’t stop with the sovereign remaining passive in the face of such opposition. Rather, the rejection of this great invitation is fit for a great punishment. How does the king deal with those who refuse to come, those who pay no attention, those who violently oppose, and those who enter the wrong way? "But the king was enraged and sent his armies, and destroyed those murderers, and set their city on fire” (vs.7). Again, we read the King’s dreadful pronouncement, “'Bind him hand and foot, and cast him into the outer darkness; in that place there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth'” (vs.13). What a sobering message, for this is the dreadful consequence for those who refuse the salvation that God has provided through his son. In truth, the punishment is in proportion to the crime.

     A US Catholic Magazine asked its readers what they thought about this question: What lies beyond the grave? The general consensus was disturbing: the notion of hell as being a place of immeasurable suffering was giving way to the belief that hell is merely a location where God doesn’t inhabit. Briefly put, hell is becoming more attractive. However, an examination of this and the other parables dealing with the reception and rejection of God’s kingdom paint a far different fate. The Psalmist said, “If I ascend to heaven, thou art there; if I make my bed in hell, behold thou art there.” The omnipresent God will be eternally present in Hades. Yet, those who abide in hell will experience God’s wrathful presence. They will encounter the fierceness of God’s company as he justly and righteously punishes for their appalling treason. C.H. Spurgeon vividly accounts that most wretched state: “But there, while they lie in their chains, they look upward, and they see ever that fearful vision of the Most High; the dreadful hands that grasp the thunderbolts, the dreadful lips that speak the thunders, and the fearful eyes that flash the flames that burn their souls, with horrors deeper than despair.”

     Hell seems a far more fearful and hopeless place given that God is present there rather than absent. Dante said it well,

“Only those elements time cannot wear

Were made before me, and beyond time I stand.

Abandon all hope, ye who enter in” - The Inferno

Possible Discussion Questions:

1. Discuss the ways in which people don’t pay attention to the message of salvation.

2. In what ways do Christians resemble those who don’t pay attention?

3. In what ways do people seek to enter heaven the wrong way? Contrast major world religions and Christianity.

4. In light of the four ways the gospel is rejected, what are the four elements in receiving the gospel?

5. Is it fair for God to punish people eternally? Why?

6. Discuss common misconceptions about the afterlife.